{"id":4399,"date":"2023-06-24T11:47:34","date_gmt":"2023-06-24T09:47:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/poverso.com\/my-goodness-my-life-was-suddenly-in-disarray\/"},"modified":"2026-03-30T17:33:45","modified_gmt":"2026-03-30T15:33:45","slug":"my-goodness-was-my-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/poverso.com\/en\/my-goodness-was-my-life\/BDSM-Spanking\/","title":{"rendered":"My goodness, my life was suddenly in disarray &#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:20%\">\n<figure data-wp-context=\"{&quot;imageId&quot;:&quot;69e5c7f4bd2a0&quot;}\" data-wp-interactive=\"core\/image\" data-wp-key=\"69e5c7f4bd2a0\" class=\"wp-block-image size-large wp-lightbox-container\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-wp-class--hide=\"state.isContentHidden\" data-wp-class--show=\"state.isContentVisible\" data-wp-init=\"callbacks.setButtonStyles\" data-wp-on--click=\"actions.showLightbox\" data-wp-on--load=\"callbacks.setButtonStyles\" data-wp-on-window--resize=\"callbacks.setButtonStyles\" src=\"https:\/\/poverso.com\/Medien\/Webseite\/Beitr&#xE4;ge\/Spanking-Bild-198.jpg\" alt=\"\"\/><button\n\t\t\tclass=\"lightbox-trigger\"\n\t\t\ttype=\"button\"\n\t\t\taria-haspopup=\"dialog\"\n\t\t\taria-label=\"Enlarge\"\n\t\t\tdata-wp-init=\"callbacks.initTriggerButton\"\n\t\t\tdata-wp-on--click=\"actions.showLightbox\"\n\t\t\tdata-wp-style--right=\"state.imageButtonRight\"\n\t\t\tdata-wp-style--top=\"state.imageButtonTop\"\n\t\t>\n\t\t\t<svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"12\" height=\"12\" fill=\"none\" viewBox=\"0 0 12 12\">\n\t\t\t\t<path fill=\"#fff\" d=\"M2 0a2 2 0 0 0-2 2v2h1.5V2a.5.5 0 0 1 .5-.5h2V0H2Zm2 10.5H2a.5.5 0 0 1-.5-.5V8H0v2a2 2 0 0 0 2 2h2v-1.5ZM8 12v-1.5h2a.5.5 0 0 0 .5-.5V8H12v2a2 2 0 0 1-2 2H8Zm2-12a2 2 0 0 1 2 2v2h-1.5V2a.5.5 0 0 0-.5-.5H8V0h2Z\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/svg>\n\t\t<\/button><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure data-wp-context=\"{&quot;imageId&quot;:&quot;69e5c7f4bd4e4&quot;}\" data-wp-interactive=\"core\/image\" data-wp-key=\"69e5c7f4bd4e4\" class=\"wp-block-image size-large wp-lightbox-container\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-wp-class--hide=\"state.isContentHidden\" data-wp-class--show=\"state.isContentVisible\" data-wp-init=\"callbacks.setButtonStyles\" data-wp-on--click=\"actions.showLightbox\" data-wp-on--load=\"callbacks.setButtonStyles\" data-wp-on-window--resize=\"callbacks.setButtonStyles\" src=\"https:\/\/poverso.com\/Medien\/Webseite\/Beitr&#xE4;ge\/352653-19051702-17.jpg.jpg\" alt=\"\"\/><button\n\t\t\tclass=\"lightbox-trigger\"\n\t\t\ttype=\"button\"\n\t\t\taria-haspopup=\"dialog\"\n\t\t\taria-label=\"Enlarge\"\n\t\t\tdata-wp-init=\"callbacks.initTriggerButton\"\n\t\t\tdata-wp-on--click=\"actions.showLightbox\"\n\t\t\tdata-wp-style--right=\"state.imageButtonRight\"\n\t\t\tdata-wp-style--top=\"state.imageButtonTop\"\n\t\t>\n\t\t\t<svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"12\" height=\"12\" fill=\"none\" viewBox=\"0 0 12 12\">\n\t\t\t\t<path fill=\"#fff\" d=\"M2 0a2 2 0 0 0-2 2v2h1.5V2a.5.5 0 0 1 .5-.5h2V0H2Zm2 10.5H2a.5.5 0 0 1-.5-.5V8H0v2a2 2 0 0 0 2 2h2v-1.5ZM8 12v-1.5h2a.5.5 0 0 0 .5-.5V8H12v2a2 2 0 0 1-2 2H8Zm2-12a2 2 0 0 1 2 2v2h-1.5V2a.5.5 0 0 0-.5-.5H8V0h2Z\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/svg>\n\t\t<\/button><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:80%\">\n<p>Since I was 14, I have had a penchant for spanking (BDSM). I am very fixated on the bottom and am both active and passive. I am 66 years old, but of course I look much younger. Until now, no one knew about my inclinations. But since sexuality still plays a big role for me, spanking is naturally incredibly stimulating for me. Lately, however, I have been getting more and more excited by things from the SM scene. With many things, however, I don&#8217;t yet know whether I might like them.      <\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n<p>I have never had paid sex in my life. Unfortunately, I have not yet been able to live out my active tendency to spanking, where I fixate on my bottom, with a beautiful woman. I have been affected by this since I was 14 years old. I am 66 years old, but of course I look much younger. Until now, nobody knew about my tendencies. But since sexuality still plays a big role for me, spanking is of course incredibly stimulating for me. Lately, however, I&#8217;ve been getting more and more aroused by things from the SM area. With many things, I don&#8217;t even know yet whether I might like them. I&#8217;ve only tried out the passive area for myself so far. As I wanted to make a change, I contacted a dominatrix called Viola and sent her an email with one of my numerous passive spanking fantasies. She replied and we made an appointment.          <\/p>\n\n<p>My life was suddenly in total disarray. From &#8220;What have I done?&#8221; to incredible excitement, all facets were there. I couldn&#8217;t think about anything else, but I already realized that the whole thing would totally enrich my life. It reminded me of the old days when you couldn&#8217;t sleep before a birthday or Christmas, the surprised whoops of &#8220;No way!&#8221; and that feeling when you did something wrong and knew it would come out. Then I was put over the table, my pants pulled down and given a terrible beating.    <\/p>\n\n<figure data-wp-context=\"{&quot;imageId&quot;:&quot;69e5c7f4bdd52&quot;}\" data-wp-interactive=\"core\/image\" data-wp-key=\"69e5c7f4bdd52\" class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized wp-lightbox-container\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-wp-class--hide=\"state.isContentHidden\" data-wp-class--show=\"state.isContentVisible\" data-wp-init=\"callbacks.setButtonStyles\" data-wp-on--click=\"actions.showLightbox\" data-wp-on--load=\"callbacks.setButtonStyles\" data-wp-on-window--resize=\"callbacks.setButtonStyles\" src=\"https:\/\/poverso.com\/Medien\/Webseite\/Beitr&#xE4;ge\/Lady-Viola.jpg\" alt=\"\"\/><button\n\t\t\tclass=\"lightbox-trigger\"\n\t\t\ttype=\"button\"\n\t\t\taria-haspopup=\"dialog\"\n\t\t\taria-label=\"Enlarge\"\n\t\t\tdata-wp-init=\"callbacks.initTriggerButton\"\n\t\t\tdata-wp-on--click=\"actions.showLightbox\"\n\t\t\tdata-wp-style--right=\"state.imageButtonRight\"\n\t\t\tdata-wp-style--top=\"state.imageButtonTop\"\n\t\t>\n\t\t\t<svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"12\" height=\"12\" fill=\"none\" viewBox=\"0 0 12 12\">\n\t\t\t\t<path fill=\"#fff\" d=\"M2 0a2 2 0 0 0-2 2v2h1.5V2a.5.5 0 0 1 .5-.5h2V0H2Zm2 10.5H2a.5.5 0 0 1-.5-.5V8H0v2a2 2 0 0 0 2 2h2v-1.5ZM8 12v-1.5h2a.5.5 0 0 0 .5-.5V8H12v2a2 2 0 0 1-2 2H8Zm2-12a2 2 0 0 1 2 2v2h-1.5V2a.5.5 0 0 0-.5-.5H8V0h2Z\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/svg>\n\t\t<\/button><\/figure>\n\n<p>The day came and I drove to the dominatrix. I had to wait a bit because I was early. I tell you, everyone on the very busy main street knew that I wanted to see &#8220;Domina Lady Viola&#8221;. &#8220;Just get out of here&#8221;, I thought, also because I was very scared. I was afraid that I wouldn&#8217;t be able to cope with the whole situation, afraid that I might be blackmailed, exploited or that the offer wasn&#8217;t real (many offer everything), afraid that I would be overused, that I would show too many feelings and, above all, that they wouldn&#8217;t respond to my needs &#8211; &#8220;it&#8217;s just a dominatrix&#8221;.     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Fortunately, Viola can&#8217;t read minds, otherwise I would probably have gotten my first thrashing from her at the door. Yes, we men are quite simple-minded in some things. She was very nice, friendly, overwhelmingly normal and not at all fucked up. I gained her trust very quickly.      Why not!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Her manner immediately allayed some of my fears so that I was able to speak coherently relatively quickly. I told her a few things about myself while I was completely mesmerized by her beautiful eyes. <\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n<p>Even at the second meeting &#8211; I was now known on the high street: &#8220;That one again, who wants to see the dominatrix&#8221; &#8211; I told her almost everything that moves me sexually. I thought again: &#8220;What have I just told her about myself?&#8221;, but it was worth it, because after this meeting I felt incredibly good and liberated, better than I had for a long time. I&#8217;m now trying to be more open about my sexual preferences.  <\/p>\n\n<p>Viola largely allayed my fears by making the whole process completely transparent. She also has an ingenious system for everything you wear and have with you. It doesn&#8217;t go in a locker or anything like that, you always have it with you. Grin, the first time I went there without any papers.   <\/p>\n\n<p>I accepted that it costs something, also because it increases the personal value immensely. Besides, you should leave your money with people who are passionate about what they do. I believe that Viola lives out her preferences in what she offers. As an older gentleman, I can still learn something here. I would like to get a basic introduction to what she offers. So far, I&#8217;ve had a parenting crisis, which she has dealt with strictly and expertly. But now I&#8217;m ready to get to know this whole new world and give up more control.      <\/p>\n\n<p>All I can say about what she does is: you have to try it out for yourself. With Viola, nobody has to be afraid. In my experience, you can talk freely about all your preferences, fantasies and ideas. She won&#8217;t do what she doesn&#8217;t like, but I think that&#8217;s better than someone offering everything.    But Lady Viola is also always good for a surprise.<\/p>\n\n<p>As long as I can afford Viola and she wants me in the long term, I will go to her often. At some point, I&#8217;m sure everyone on the high street will say hello to me. She pushes my limits and allows me to go beyond them to experience or feel something I&#8217;ve never experienced before.  <\/p>\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity hr-blog\"\/>\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center gewaehr has-black-background-color has-background\" style=\"font-size:18px\">Where can I experience this: <span class=\"popup-trigger popmake-11184\" data-popup-id=\"11184\" data-do-default=\"0\"><strong>Info &amp; Disclaimer!<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns has-black-background-color has-background is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33%\">\n<div style=\"height:8px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-left Poverso_H1 has-large-font-size\"><strong>Where may I<\/strong><\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-left Poverso_H1 has-large-font-size\"><strong>the experience<\/strong><\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center sucht has-white-color has-vivid-red-background-color has-text-color has-background has-link-color wp-elements-eb50cc64475d9d5f694414039afcf8be\" style=\"font-size:24px\">He or she is looking for HER<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:25px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/poverso.com\/Medien\/Webseite\/Beitr&#xE4;ge\/Lady-Viola_Rohrstock_frei.png\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:66.66%\">\n<p>I am Lady Viola, a <strong>touchable dominatrix<\/strong> from Hamburg. I love it when a session is a firework of emotions.<br\/>The game from erotic to sadistic gives me a lot of possibilities to drive you crazy with lust and devotion. So you should know that I will take what gives me pleasure. 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