{"id":44899,"date":"2026-02-26T20:31:07","date_gmt":"2026-02-26T19:31:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/poverso.com\/das-bin-und-mache-ich\/BDSM\/"},"modified":"2026-08-31T18:49:05","modified_gmt":"2026-08-31T16:49:05","slug":"that-i-am-and-what-i-do","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/poverso.com\/en\/that-i-am-and-what-i-do\/BDSM-Spanking\/","title":{"rendered":"That’s I am and what I do!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

I’m glad you stopped by!<\/strong><\/span>I\u2019d be very happy if you reached out to me with any questions, requests, fantasies, or needs\u2014or if you\u2019d like to chat (BDSM, SM, & spanking).<\/strong>But I don\u2019t want to be just one of many people spamming you\u2014that\u2019s also why I hardly ever reach out to anyone actively anymore. It\u2019s entirely up to you<\/span>!I really little<\/strong><\/span> interest in MEN<\/strong>! But I\u2019ll respond to every request.<\/p>\n\n

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Ideally, I\u2019m a spanker and\/or sadist<\/strong>, and perhaps your Dom (on equal terms). You can find out more about me here on the blog<\/a> and about BDSM in general on the homepage<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n

THE SPANKER<\/h3>\n\n

This also applies to women in relationships where, because of their emotional attachment to their partner, they tend to be too lenient and unassertive.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n

For beginners<\/strong>, naughty girls<\/strong>, and advanced students.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n

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I absolutely love spanking a woman’s butt. My pleasure in doing so becomes your pleasure\u2014either during the act or afterward\u2014and vice versa. In a safe and trusting environment, you\u2019ll be able to let yourself go and enjoy it when I discipline and\/or train you\u2014strictly yet passionately\u2014with your consent. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The intimacy in our play is enhanced by a comforting closeness that allows for a warm and playful connection, with both of us on equal footing. With respect and care, we will joyfully explore new things together, thereby broadening our horizons\u2014guided solely by our desire and passion. <\/p>\n\n

If you\u2019d like, we\u2019d be happy to visit events, regular get-togethers, shops and the like, so that you can get to know the vast, exciting and fulfilling world of fetishism (even better) and realise that your needs aren\u2019t unusual, meaning they no longer stand in the way of your happiness<\/p>\n\n

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This will or can draw your bottom or your body.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But rest assured a surprise is always waiting for you.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n

THE SADIST (BDSM)<\/h3>\n\n

Through experience, reflection, and open conversations\u2014especially during regular spanking sessions\u2014we may find ourselves getting closer and closer to our animalistic core, though this isn\u2019t necessarily the case. This core may demand more than just SPANKING, especially as our pain threshold shifts.Under certain circumstances, a whole new world can open up here\u2014in the form of a wonderful body that longs to be disciplined and tormented. Though physical torment isn\u2019t always what\u2019s sought! Often, however, it is the pain or the mental imagery (brainfuck) that provides lasting satisfaction and relaxation unlike anything else, and can also bring about positive changes in daily life. <\/p>\n\n

Rest assured that nothing will happen here that you don\u2019t want. After all, if you don\u2019t enjoy what we\u2019re doing\u2014either in the moment or afterward\u2014I won\u2019t enjoy it either. It\u2019s always your decision whether and how far you want to go, since fantasy and reality often diverge. Sometimes, however, it\u2019s the imagined \u201cno-gos\u201d that arouse a desire you couldn\u2019t have imagined even in your wildest fantasies or dreams. <\/p>\n\n

The variety of practices we can try out is virtually endless, offering us constant variety and ever-changing pleasures. All we need is a little courage, an open mind and a willingness to compromise at the outset. <\/p>\n\n

DEIN DOM at eye level<\/h3>\n\n

Dominion does not fall from the sky and must be acquired by you, in your glorious devotion, just like everything else in life. Realistic exchange and an initial willingness to compromise are also important here, as mainstream and indiscriminate choices quickly wear out and end in boredom. <\/p>\n\n

Feelings play an important role in this type of play because they are the basis of our being and our dreams, fantasies and needs are nourished by them. Curiously enough, our dreams and fantasies often have little to do with our real experiences. <\/p>\n\n

– Being punished and allowed to be used may, under certain circumstances, bring us both even more pleasure and inner freedom.– You\u2019ll relinquish control and, as you let go, dive into another world.– I\u2019ll lift you<\/strong> up and reward you<\/strong> by showing you how proud I am of you.You\u2019ll always feel how I desire your devotion, you, and your body\u2014and in doing so, give you the deepest intimacy two people can share.<\/p>\n\n

As your DOM at eye level, I will be there for you and respect your NoGos to take away your fears in life, I promise you that.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n

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Are you looking for Prince Charming? Isn’t this claim the prevention of what you could find? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n

I stopped looking for my dream princess a long time ago because I’ve learned that demands and expectations are not very effective. With this attitude, we often don’t get to know the really interesting people. However, I have met some people who would never have fitted in with my expectations, but who have since become friends, even in purely erotic and BDSM encounters. <\/p>\n\n

I am a person that many people like to be with in a trusting relationship. I’m open, very honest and probably also quite humorous. Okay, the honesty thing can also go wrong – although it’s always required – because “If you tell the truth, you should have a fast horse.” <\/p>\n\n

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What happens when you allow something or are open to experience?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n

It can happen that your own horizon expands. Things that you didn’t see for yourself can turn into something that suddenly gives you fun and pleasure because you perceive a person lovingly or with pleasure and, yes, experience the being of the other person with an empathetic feeling. In spanking and BDSM, I experience the deepest intimacy that cannot be compared to any other sexual experience. <\/p>\n\n

I would be delighted if you are now interested in a casual exchange and let me know via message. Best regards, J\u00f6rn <\/p>\n\n

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I like that<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

People for real things, regardless of the constellation. Here, time and the trust that develops show where the path leads if you allow an initial willingness to compromise. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This person is you if:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– you can allow expectationless feelings– you communicate openly and honestly with me– you accept or even share my preferences– you know that men need tenderness and don’t just consist of a sh…z– you show me your lust and passion and thus increase my passion immeasurably– we can trust each other and allow closeness, because that is the most beautiful thing you can experience together– we give each other the security we need to allow many things to happen<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n

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I don’t like that<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

– Lies (including deliberate concealment)– More appearance than reality– Salami tactics– Egomaniacs– Lack of reflection and empathy– Drinking caviar, blood, ruthlessness and NS.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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