The drawn bottom (BDSM)
Welts, bruises, scratches, bite marks and sucking marks are a characteristic of a beautiful BDSM encounter. These traces are temporary memories, of the beauty of pain and of the connection with the person who left them behind. Depending on the intensity of the game, its preparation and the individual physical conditions, traces can be visible for a long time or fade quickly. Most women want to proudly wear and admire their marks for a long time. For me there is nothing more beautiful than a wonderfully shaped bottom!
These traces of passion and lust are different for everyone, for some after just a few light strokes and for others the bottom remains almost without a trace even after an intensive session. The marking of the bottom also varies depending on the instrument. Thinner instruments are more likely to leave welts and wider instruments are more likely to create a red area, even blue or green spots.
Here are a few practical examples:
This woman’s bottom was warmed up and she didn’t get very many strokes on her bottom. These traces lasted for a few days.
This woman’s bottom looked like this after a few hundred hard strokes. And the tracks were no longer visible after a few hours.
This woman is very sensitive to quick hard marks. But she wanted to get it on her ass much more and harder from this point on.
A well-trained man’s bottom that was chastised really hard and mercilessly for a long time. He was so intoxicated that he always wanted more.
A very long chastisement, almost like an *ultimo, defenselessly delivered with all kinds of instruments, the chastisement was carried out very strictly and relentlessly. My bottom was slightly bruised afterwards.
After a few days the bottom looked like this and left a magnificent play of colors of hematomas (bruises) for 2 weeks. The sight in the mirror and the pain when sitting were very much enjoyed.
For me, the *Ultimo is something you used to experience. Back then, if you messed up, you were punished and as a child you were defenceless and weren’t warmed up and you couldn’t decide what you were beaten with and how hard. Parents or teachers, for example, would angrily beat your defenceless bare bottom.
I’m only going into it here for the sake of completeness as it’s not my favorite type of game.
I later played it out completely with a dominant who was able to convey the severity in a controlled manner. Many older men know this from before and have this desire to relive something like this from a responsible hand, but it takes courage and a lot of trust. I had the courage, see under“Suddenly it was like before …” and I was able to come to terms with some things afterwards!
Not everyone finds tracks after a session beautiful. Some therefore want no or minimal marks, but without sacrificing an intense session. Especially with regular chastisement, the sensation of pain can change in such a way that you need it harder and harder and so the marks are less visible and only visible for a short time.
Most marks disappear by themselves after a while, which is not necessarily the case with bruises on untrained bottoms. Here it can come to a play of colors over weeks.
A session, like many other SM experiences, is characterized by a rollercoaster of emotions. Feel-good phases are followed by an increase in intensity up to the individual (pain) limit, possibly even a deliberate or agreed crossing of the limit. A more intense part is followed by another feel-good phase. Intensity peaks and recovery phases are repeated several times. The instruments can also be changed to emphasize differences in sensations and to draw different traces.
How do I minimize traces in advance?
Warming up is a popular and proven method. This is achieved by slowly increasing the strokes within the comfort zone at the start of a session or after a longer break. The warm-up serves three purposes:
– 1. the gentle raising of the general pain threshold through the release of endorphins.
– 2. a temporary numbing of the nerves in the area of the striking surface.
These two points have the effect that strong strokes are better endured and are subjectively perceived as more pleasant.
– 3. warming up stimulates blood circulation and immunity. This means that injuries to the tissue such as welts and haematomas are less likely to occur and also heal more quickly after the game.
In order to carry out a session with as few marks as possible, it is therefore essential to warm up thoroughly before harder strokes.
A lot of pain and few traces
This involves a gentle but long and thorough warm-up within the comfort zone. The release of stress hormones is avoided by making the strokes more like a massage. An actual massage through vigorous kneading can alternate with this or even replace the beating altogether. This approach is a balancing act – as the physical stimulus must be strong enough to minimize the release of endorphins.
A lot of traces little pain
As cold caning, i.e. chastising without warming up (if at all during punishments) is not usually desired, but clearly visible marks are requested, the striking surface is left out completely for the time being. The endorphin release is stimulated gently but firmly, always at the limit of the feel-good zone, using completely different methods. For example, with blows to other parts of the body, heat or cold stimuli, stimulation current treatments or needle play.
*Cold Caning
There is no warm-up at all here – the session consists exclusively of hard, relentless punishment, possibly with short breaks in between.
This is followed by punishment within the previously enlarged comfort zone. Here you should use instruments that leave clearly visible marks, such as thinner canes, freshly cut rods or dressage canes.
How do I minimize traces during a session?
In one session
In the case of chastisement, if there are known spots or a slightly bleeding area but the sub still wants to be chastised. In this case, you can cover these areas with a padded plaster, such as GehWol protective plaster, in advance or during the process
In one session
If it is recognizable or the person is prone to haematomas (bruises), treat the area with a cold pack or ice spray immediately after the punishment. This causes the blood vessels to contract, stops bleeding and minimizes swelling.
In or after a session
In the case of bleeding areas or skin abrasions, it is essential to disinfect the area with a disinfectant spray such as Kodan. There are 2 versions with and without alcohol, the version with alcohol has the advantage that the areas burn nicely when sprayed. Actually a win-win situation!
After a session or repeatedly if there have been longer breaks between sessions, you can treat the chastened areas with ointment such as Traumeel
After a session
The following day after the session, you can treat the marks or the bruised areas with a nourishing ointment such as Heparin.
And the mental traces?
Yes, these can be countered with the so-called aftercare also known as aftercare.
Aftercare refers to the mutual psychological and emotional support after a BDSM session by giving each other physical affection if desired. The aim is to deal with post-session feelings as best as possible without feelings of shame and to signal the nervous system: You are safe.
Stroking and caressing, as well as scratching and scratching, are also possible with all kinds of aids, which will most likely please the other person very much. Sexual acts are also possible, of course, and can lead to wonderful orgasms. Stimulating the sexually affine areas can often be enough, it doesn’t always have to be penetration!
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