I’m glad you stopped by!
I’d be very happy if you reached out to me with any questions, requests, fantasies, or needs—or if you’d like to chat (BDSM, SM, & spanking).

But I don’t want to be just one of many people spamming you—that’s also why I hardly ever reach out to anyone actively anymore. It’s entirely up to you!

I really little interest in MEN! But I’ll respond to every request.

Ideally, I’m a spanker and/or sadist, and perhaps your Dom (on equal terms). You can find out more about me here on the blog and about BDSM in general on the homepage.

THE SPANKER

This also applies to women in relationships where, because of their emotional attachment to their partner, they tend to be too lenient and unassertive.

For beginners, naughty girls, and advanced students.

I absolutely love spanking a woman’s butt. My pleasure in doing so becomes your pleasure—either during the act or afterward—and vice versa. In a safe and trusting environment, you’ll be able to let yourself go and enjoy it when I discipline and/or train you—strictly yet passionately—with your consent.

The intimacy in our play is enhanced by a comforting closeness that allows for a warm and playful connection, with both of us on equal footing. With respect and care, we will joyfully explore new things together, thereby broadening our horizons—guided solely by our desire and passion.

If you’d like, we’d be happy to visit events, regular get-togethers, shops and the like, so that you can get to know the vast, exciting and fulfilling world of fetishism (even better) and realise that your needs aren’t unusual, meaning they no longer stand in the way of your happiness

This will or can draw your bottom or your body.

But rest assured a surprise is always waiting for you.

THE SADIST (BDSM)

Through experience, reflection, and open conversations—especially during regular spanking sessions—we may find ourselves getting closer and closer to our animalistic core, though this isn’t necessarily the case. This core may demand more than just SPANKING, especially as our pain threshold shifts.
Under certain circumstances, a whole new world can open up here—in the form of a wonderful body that longs to be disciplined and tormented. Though physical torment isn’t always what’s sought! Often, however, it is the pain or the mental imagery (brainfuck) that provides lasting satisfaction and relaxation unlike anything else, and can also bring about positive changes in daily life.

Rest assured that nothing will happen here that you don’t want. After all, if you don’t enjoy what we’re doing—either in the moment or afterward—I won’t enjoy it either. It’s always your decision whether and how far you want to go, since fantasy and reality often diverge. Sometimes, however, it’s the imagined “no-gos” that arouse a desire you couldn’t have imagined even in your wildest fantasies or dreams.

The variety of practices we can try out is virtually endless, offering us constant variety and ever-changing pleasures. All we need is a little courage, an open mind and a willingness to compromise at the outset.

DEIN DOM at eye level

Dominion does not fall from the sky and must be acquired by you, in your glorious devotion, just like everything else in life. Realistic exchange and an initial willingness to compromise are also important here, as mainstream and indiscriminate choices quickly wear out and end in boredom.

Feelings play an important role in this type of play because they are the basis of our being and our dreams, fantasies and needs are nourished by them. Curiously enough, our dreams and fantasies often have little to do with our real experiences.

– Being punished and allowed to be used may, under certain circumstances, bring us both even more pleasure and inner freedom.
– You’ll relinquish control and, as you let go, dive into another world.
– I’ll lift you up and reward you by showing you how proud I am of you.

You’ll always feel how I desire your devotion, you, and your body—and in doing so, give you the deepest intimacy two people can share.

As your DOM at eye level, I will be there for you and respect your NoGos to take away your fears in life, I promise you that.

Are you looking for Prince Charming? Isn’t this claim the prevention of what you could find?

I stopped looking for my dream princess a long time ago because I’ve learned that demands and expectations are not very effective. With this attitude, we often don’t get to know the really interesting people. However, I have met some people who would never have fitted in with my expectations, but who have since become friends, even in purely erotic and BDSM encounters.

I am a person that many people like to be with in a trusting relationship. I’m open, very honest and probably also quite humorous. Okay, the honesty thing can also go wrong – although it’s always required – because “If you tell the truth, you should have a fast horse.”

What happens when you allow something or are open to experience?

It can happen that your own horizon expands. Things that you didn’t see for yourself can turn into something that suddenly gives you fun and pleasure because you perceive a person lovingly or with pleasure and, yes, experience the being of the other person with an empathetic feeling. In spanking and BDSM, I experience the deepest intimacy that cannot be compared to any other sexual experience.

I would be delighted if you are now interested in a casual exchange and let me know via message. Best regards, Jörn

I like that

People for real things, regardless of the constellation. Here, time and the trust that develops show where the path leads if you allow an initial willingness to compromise.

This person is you if:

– you can allow expectationless feelings
– you communicate openly and honestly with me
– you accept or even share my preferences
– you know that men need tenderness and don’t just consist of a sh…z
– you show me your lust and passion and thus increase my passion immeasurably
– we can trust each other and allow closeness, because that is the most beautiful thing you can experience together
– we give each other the security we need to allow many things to happen

I don’t like that

– Lies (including deliberate concealment)
– More appearance than reality
– Salami tactics
– Egomaniacs
– Lack of reflection and empathy
– Drinking caviar, blood, ruthlessness and NS.